From ancient up to now, good human relationship needs us to learn conversion to think, esteem other. Current society, need more each other esteem and conversion think between person and person.
从古至今，良好的人际关系都需要我们学会换位思考，尊重他人。当今社会，更需要人与人之间彼此的尊重与换位思考。
The the deadliest, most abominable thing is bully. What is bully? This forces the apiration of my individual at the person namely. The society that in us this high speed develops, esteem other and conversion think, have the effect more at the person than forcing sometimes.
最致命、最令人憎恶的事情就是欺侮。什么是欺侮呢？这就是把我个人的意愿强加于人。在我们这个高速发展的社会，尊重他人与换位思考，有时比强加于人更有效果。
A businessman sees a dressed in rage pencil salesman in street, the heart gives birth to pity, threw a yuan of money into the bosom of the member that sell to go, passed a little while, feel inappropriate, come back to explain, forget to take pencil, say to bagman: “ we are businessmen, your commodity plain code marks a price, why don't I agree to take pencil to your money? I am sorry, ask you to excuse my rash ” .
一个商人在街头看到一个衣衫褴褛的铅笔推销员，心生怜悯，就把一元钱扔进了销售员的怀里走了，过了一会儿，觉得不妥，便回来解释，忘拿铅笔，并对推销员说：“你我都是商人，你的商品明码标价，我给你钱为什么就不肯拿铅笔呢？对不起，请您原谅我的冒失”。
After a few months, in a social situation, wearing orderly bagman to greet a businessman, give on oneself calling card, say: You may have forgotten “ me, but I cannot forget you forever, you give me that valued person afresh namely, feel oneself are a beggar that promotes pencil all the time, tell me till you, I am a business stops artificially, thank you give directions! ”
几个月之后，在一个社交场合，穿着整齐的推销员迎上商人，并递上自己的名片，说：“您可能已经忘了我，但我永远忘不了您，您就是那个重新给我尊重的人，一直觉得自己是个推销铅笔的乞丐，直到您告诉我，我是一个商人为止，谢谢您的指点!”
Taigeer once had said: Family of “ your respect, the family respects you, this is the fairness between person and person trades ” . The trader thinks through conversion feel not should so do not respect others, return an apology then, and because bagman got respect, become self-confident rise, and excused a businessman. This shows, respecting others and conversion to think is how important.
泰戈尔曾经说过：“你尊重人家，人家尊重你，这是人与人之间的公平交易”。商人经过换位思考觉得不应该这么不尊重别人，于是返回道歉，而推销员因为受到了尊重，变得自信起来，并且原谅了商人。由此可见，尊重别人与换位思考是多么的重要。
In daily life, we also can encounter a lot of similar cases.
在日常生活中，我们也会遇到许多类似的情况。
Once a classmate complains to me say: “ why the teacher attends class to always procrastinate hall, playtime altogether with respect to ten minutes, he always procrastinates hall, do not think we receive the toilet on water? ”
曾经有个同学向我抱怨说：“为什么老师上课总是拖堂，课间一共就十分钟，他总拖堂，就不想我们接水上厕所吗？”
The teacher always procrastinates hall, really not quite good, playtime loosens rest time to the student originally, after he takes up, the student has not rested, class playing a part should begin, but think conversely, the teacher also is bitter intention of a fine, take up between next class hour, also be to let the pupil learns and master more knowledge.
老师总是拖堂，确实不太好，课间本就给学生放松休息的时间，他占用之后，学生还没有休息，下节课便要开始了，但是反过来想想，老师也是一片良苦用心，占用下课时间，也是让学生学习和掌握更多知识。
Both sides needs conversion to think, the student thinks the teacher's fine suffers from the intention, the rest that the teacher considers a student and changeless, bilateral peace gets along, it is better to be respected each other.
双方都需要换位思考一下，学生想想老师的良苦用心，老师想想学生的休息和不变，双方和平相处，相互尊重一下会更好。
Esteem others, conversion thinks, the for love or money averages the person that awaits a person, just be the person with exalted morality.
尊重别人，换位思考，在任何情况下都平等待人的人，才是道德高尚的人。
First 3 (4) Ban Zhujing refineds
初三（4）班朱静娴