Reconcile to always happen between oneself and other, affray parents reconciles after a dinner, the classmate that fight reconciles on a class. Do but had you wanted to mix,oneself reconcile?
和解总是发生在自己与他人之间，吵架的父母在一顿晚饭后和解，打架的同学在一堂课上和解。可是你想过和自己和解吗？
Develop as the high speed of modern science and technology, internet times comes formally. Of people aesthetic go up as the network so called " belle of handsome young man " emerge in endlessly and rise ceaselessly, to " beautiful " the definition also is in ceaseless refresh. The all the time is in trafficking appearance angst and figure angst, "The net is cruel " one word also appears again and again, I also am being troubled for this.
随着现代科技的高速发展，互联网时代正式到来。人们的审美随着网络上所谓的“帅哥美女”的层出不穷而不断提高，对于“美”的定义也在不断刷新。无时无刻都在贩卖着容貌焦虑和身材焦虑，“网暴”一词也频频出现，我也为此而烦恼着。
The commanding elevation that people always likes to stand in morality will criticize other, they think they are a god. Go up since junior high school, study pressure is greater and greater, I learn to dance previously, the figure still also calculates slender, as a result of school work I must quit dancing study, often feel empty after the late night completes work, should come with food amortize, do not give half an year, my figure begins go out of form gradually. A few abhorrent classmates mock me because of this unexpectedly, "Tank " the pronoun that also became me, I am very sad. In that summer vacation I am dark be determined, want to return original about, in that paragraph of day, I drink one tun water to come everyday allay one's hunger, just also eat twice everyday, the effect is distinct, I became thin 10 jins, but term begins " in one day is returned before liberating, " still rebounded even a few jins. I look at a mirror in oneself, double chin, big abdomen Nan, elephant leg... they also grow in intensity deridingly to mine. I am very self-abased in those day, study also dropped.作文 WwW.ZuOwENbA.NeT
人们总是喜欢站在道德的制高点来指责他人，他们以为自己是神。上初中以来，学习压力越来越大，以前我是学跳舞的，身材也还算苗条，由于学业我不得不放弃跳舞的学习，每每在深夜完成作业后都觉得空虚，要用食物来缓冲一下，不出半年，我的身材渐渐开始走样。几个可恶的同学竟因此而嘲笑我，“坦克”也成了我的代名词，我很伤心。在那个暑假我暗下决心，要回到原来的模样，在那段日子里，我每天喝一大桶水来充饥，也只是每天吃两顿，效果显著，我瘦了十斤，但是一开学便“一朝回到解放前，”甚至还反弹了几斤。我看着镜子里的自己，双下巴，大肚腩，大象腿……他们对我的嘲笑也愈演愈烈。那些天里我很自卑，学习也下降了。
A paragraph of such word saw on the network till me: "What is beautiful? The beauty that who defines be? Is the United States to want certainly white thin? Must double-fold eyelid, chopstick leg? Not! Self-confident ability is beautiful! Healthy ability is beautiful! " I as if to be nodded to wake at a draught. Be, because the person is faulty and perfect, why to want hold tight to wear is oneself pain spot put? Why to reconcile with oneself?
直到我在网络上看到了这样的一段话：“什么是美？是谁定义的美？美一定是要又白又瘦吗？一定要双眼皮，筷子腿吗？不！自信才是美！健康才是美！”我仿佛一下子被点醒了。是啊，人因不完美而完美，为什么要揪着自己的痛处不放？为什么不和自己和解呢？
Later, I also comprehend their fleer to me no longer, I am self-confident, I am healthy, I am doing myself this is enough.
之后，他们对我的冷嘲热讽我也不再领会，我是自信的，我是健康的，我在做自己这就足够了。
The word of praise can be blurted out, the word look before you leap of bespatter. Network force goes in the network life of rich and colorful grow is dark long. Often can see the without reason in go up in the net or living is a few more abuse the speech of renown people, they perhaps do not know its cause and effect, casuse and effect, it is echo what other says only, chime in with others, no matter true and false, take no account of consequence, pursue only temporarily fun. Should know " the tongue does not have bone, but can commit murder. " " avalanche when doing not have a snowflake is innocent.
夸赞的话可以脱口而出，诋毁的话三思而后行。网络暴力在丰富多彩的网络生活中潜滋暗长。经常能看到在网上或生活中无故辱骂一些名人们的话语，他们也许并不知道事情的来龙去脉，前因后果，只是人云亦云，随声附和，不论真假，不考虑后果，只图一时的乐趣。要知道“舌头没有骨头，但是可以杀人。”“雪崩的时候没有一片雪花是无辜的。
Face other to praise to his with praise, not blind and conceited, do not lose ego, face others the criticism to oneself and censure, distinguish stand or fall, correct in time, not implicit, have a method. Should remember " do not do last straw that presses dead camel. Should remember " do not do last straw that presses dead camel..
面对他人对自己的称赞与表扬，不盲目自负，不迷失自我，面对别人对自己的批评与指责，分清好坏，及时改正，不盲从，有方法。要记住“不要做压死骆驼的最后一根稻草。”
In the life, our hard to avoid can hear others to be opposite oneself or honour or demote, or intended or inadvertently evaluation, what we should do is to had done his, he holds the post of him by force strong, hillock of cool breeze stroke, might as well retreat one pace to want, why to reconcile with oneself?
在生活中，我们难免会听到别人对自己或褒或贬，或有意或无心的评价，我们要做的就是做好自己，他强任他强，清风拂山岗，不妨退一步想一想，为什么不和自己和解呢？