Gentleman with body of fine travel law, do not take a person with fine travel. —— Wei Yuan. The person with exalted moral character can go up to ask strictly seriously in bagatelle only oneself, do not if on bagatelle seek another person. Visible and good-tempered it is how important. Gentleman always asks strictly from the fine point of every little bit oneself, not be to be able to tighten the defect that arresting another person not to let go. Good-tempered, not only important, also need our everybody to accomplish.
君子以细行律身，不以细行取人。——魏源。品德高尚的人只会在小事上认真严格要求自己，并不在小事上去苟求他人。可见宽容是多么重要。君子总是去从一点一滴的细微之处去严格要求自己，并不是会紧扣着他人的缺点不放手。宽容，不仅重要，也需要我们每个人做到。来自作文吧 zUOwENbA.net
Lin Xiangru and cheap quite everybody has heard of the story, cheap quite because refuse to obey Lin is similar and want to hit him, after letting Lin Xiangru know, for face hall condition, chose concede. Final, just had ” of “ offer a humble apology the origin of this story. From which, we are OK also very deep-felt those who experience Lin Xiangru is good-tempered and atmosphere. The heart that says gentleman is wide be like the sea, so, is Pu similar be a gentleman? Same, cheap quite dare to admit one's mistake let us feel very admire. Visible, good-tempered have how powerful. This is kind of open-minded life state, in the meantime, also be the way that gets the gentleman that the person reveres.
蔺相如和廉颇的故事大家都听说过吧，廉颇因为不服蔺相如而想要打击他一下，让蔺相如知道之后，为了朝堂局势，选择了退让。最终，才有了“负荆请罪”这个故事的由来。从中，我们也可以十分深切的感受到蔺相如的宽容以及大气。都说君子之心宽如海，那么，葡相如不就是一位君子吗？同样，廉颇的敢于承认错误让我们感到十分的敬佩。可见，宽容有多么的强大。这是种豁达的人生境界，同时，也是受人敬仰的君子之道。
In current society, can accomplish ” to father at be self restrained, wide it is in order to need the person of person ” little little. ” is severe at law person, wide in order to wait for already ” became the commonnest phenomenon. good-tempered other, others will appreciate you, you also will get the gratitude of other. Such, contradictory nature also was dissolved. In the meantime, good-tempered it is a kind of demeanour, it is a kind of wisdom, it is a kind of air more. This is wisdom person practice. If we are in the life, such many somes of mutual understanding, many somes good-tempered, he Chou is our neither one very harmonious Where is very good society? Allow the one side that other sees he is good-tempered, is arriving hard meddlesome? ……
在当今社会中，能做到”严于律己，宽以待人”的人都是少之又少的。”严于律人，宽以待已”成了最常见的现象。宽容了他人，别人将会感激你，你也将得到他人的感激。这样，矛盾自然也就化解了。同时，宽容是一种风度，是一种智慧，更是一种大气。这便是智者的做法。如果我们在生活之中，多一些这样的相互理解，多一些宽容，又何愁我们没有一个十分和谐又十分美好的社会呢？让他人看到自己宽容的一面，难到不是好事吗？……
Make our choice good-tempered, learning to go good-tempered need a person, let us learning to make a life wisdom person.
让我们选择宽容，学着去宽容待人，让我们学着去做一个人生的智者。(文/和明泽)