Know the person of ” of “ be willing to part with or use, his life just is met perfect conjugal bliss. —— preface
懂得“舍得”的人，他的人生才会花好月圆。——题记
These days, I always am pondering over ” of be willing to part with or use of ——“ of a word. I know, this word is full of adj thinking and philosophical imply, at me small age is not proportional, but the scintilla of the thought is in ablaze and glaring, I cannot from already.
这些日子，我总在思考着一个词——“舍得”。我知道，这个词充满着辩证思维与哲学意味，于我小小的年纪并不相称，但思想的火花在熊熊闪耀，我不能自已。
Boundless life journey, have abandon have surely, have so that Yi Biyou abandons. Those who change character, lose while, mean in get certain thing; Get while, mean certain thing to be being lost. “ fish, my place desire also; Bear's paw also my place desire also. Both cannot be gotten hold <> concurrently, the person that abandon a fish and take bear's paw also ” , got bear's paw lost a fish however, the road of life not absolutely? See the process with unripe bearer, be destined is to want to be ceaselessly between “ fish ” and ” of “ bear's paw undertaking choosing. I think, only advisable and ironside, just can make accurate and clear judgement, realize the value of life and meaning thereby.
漫漫人生路，有舍必有得，有得亦必有舍。换言之，失去的同时，就意味着在得到某些东西；得到的同时，就意味着某些东西正在失去。“鱼，我所欲也；熊掌亦我所欲也。二者不可得兼，舍鱼而取熊掌者也”，得到了熊掌却失去了鱼，人生之路难道不正是如此吗？看来人生的过程，注定是要不断地在“鱼”与“熊掌”之间进行着选择。我想，唯有明智而勇敢的人，才可以做出准确而明晰的判断，从而实现人生的价值与意义。
Such choice, it is very difficult to some people, but very easy however to some people. “ difficult ” , because still cannot make clear valuation to the target of the choice,be; “ easy ” , it is because of to some people character its heart had one steelyard already.
这样的选择，对有些人来说是很困难的，可对有些人来说却很容易。之所以“困难”，是因为对于选择的目标还不能做出清晰的价值判断；之所以“容易”，是因为对有些人而言其内心早已有了一杆秤。
Frost says American well-known poet, there are two ways in the forest, we chose among them, have to abandon another. This word listens will be just as a blow and a shout-sharp warning, so determined and upper palpability has abandon ability to have, the look must not have “ to hold those who get the assuming of ” concurrently to want. But we often can see, when a lot of people in the life face a choice, appear so indecisive, then they are rotating in the crossroad of the choice, wandering. I think, hesitation comes from at knowing the way of ” of “ be willing to part with or use, lack rational resolution and courage. When having a composition, become libidinal becloud when double eye, such choice must send hardship more with respect to expression, do not make any choices even, the arrangement of destiny of sit back and wait. So hesitant state of mind, be sure to drain too much energy and resource. Brief life, be via having such turn from side to side, be in pendulous in, life is in elapse sadly.
美国著名诗人弗罗斯特说，森林中有两条路，我们选择了其中一条，就得放弃另一条。这句话听来犹如当头棒喝，那么坚决地表明了有舍才有得，容不得有“兼得”的非分之想。可我们常常能看到，生活中很多人面对选择时，显得那么犹豫不决，于是他们在选择的十字路口旋转着、徘徊着。我想，犹豫来自于不懂“舍得”之道，缺乏理性分辨能力与勇气。有作文时当欲望蒙蔽了双眼时，这样的选择就表现得愈发艰难，甚至不做任何选择了，坐等命运的安排。这样犹豫的心态，必将消耗太多的精力与资源。短暂的生命，是经不起这样的折腾的，在摇摆不定中，生命在悄然流逝。
Tao Yuan bright do not be 5 fight rice and bow, “ is rural will over grown with weeds, do not put in ” 's charge why, he is in official circles and rural between made if really definitely choice. The official circles zoology of each trying to cheat the other disappeared, the human relation of complex conflict disappeared, the rest of only “ collects chrysanthemum Dong Li to fall, see carefreely south the idle ease of hill ” . Wen Tianxiang is in arms be defeated when be captured, inspiring awe by upholding justice, rather die than submit, chose to abandon be born and take justice. Because, early very clear ground has coordinate of a value in his heart, that is justice prep above life. “ Kongyue dies for a righteous cause, meng Yue is taken justice ” , he is abandoned went oneself life, cashed the promise that “ keeps ” of historical records of understand without being told extraction pellet or powder. Lu Xun gentleman, abandon medical service in those days from civil, resolutely abandon a major resolutelyingly, will pursue another career. “ transforms national sex, wake up people ” , realize such mission feeling prep above soberly when him when the ideal from cure, the choice that he makes appears very easy.
陶渊明不为五斗米而折腰，“田园将芜，胡不归”，他在官场与田园之间做出了果决的选择。尔虞我诈的官场生态不见了，复杂冲突的人际关系不见了，余下的只有“采菊东篱下，悠然见南山”的闲逸。文天祥在兵败被俘时，大义凛然，宁死不屈，选择了舍生而取义。因为，他心中早就很清晰地拥有一个价值座标，那就是义高于生命。“孔曰成仁，孟曰取义”，他舍去了自己的生命，兑现了“留取丹心照汗青”的诺言。鲁迅先生，当年弃医从文，毅然决然地放弃一个专业，来从事另一个事业。“改造国民性，唤醒民众”，当他清醒地意识到这样的使命感高于从医的理想时，他所作的选择就显得很从容了。
Beside my, some classmates are abandoned go playing, use the time that play study, got exceedingly good result thereby; And some classmates abandon the time that went doing work, use these time do the business that is without a meaning, what get finally is horrible achievement.
在我的身边，有的同学舍去嬉戏，把玩的时间用来学习，从而得到了优异的成绩；而有的同学则舍去了做作业的时间，把这些时间用来做毫无意义的事情，最终得到的是惨不忍睹的成绩。
Kind melon gets melon, kind the beans gets a beans, gotten result, come from from beginning to end those who abandon because of. And “ holds the miracle that gets ” concurrently, can not arrive to have mythological real world in this. Illume heart lamp, encouraged goes looking for obtain the “ fish ” that suits oneself or ” of “ bear's paw, this ability is true and happy life.
种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆，得的结果，始终来自舍的因。而“兼得”的奇迹，并不会降临在这个拥有神话的现实世界。点亮心灯，鼓足勇气去觅获适合自己的“鱼”或“熊掌”，这才是真实而幸福的人生。(文/余芹)