在我的记忆中，父亲是个很严厉的人。他经常出差，两年才回来一次，所以父亲的身影在我头脑里很模糊，只记得他打我骂我的时候很凶。于是对父亲产生一种畏惧，与他渐渐地疏远，好像两人之间隔了一间很坚固的墙。
In my memory, my father was a very strict person. He often goes on business trips and only comes back once every two years, so my father's figure is very blurry in my mind. I only remember when he hit and scolded me fiercely. So I developed a fear of my father and gradually distanced myself from him, as if there was a strong wall between them.
在以后的日子里，父亲出差也少了，我们接触的时间也越来越多了，可是却找不到共同的话题。父亲曾一次又一次地靠近我，接近我，为的就是和我谈谈心，聊聊天，说出自己的真心话，而我却害怕他，不敢与他接近，每次都要躲避他。即使是开个家庭会议，也要找借口不去参加。
In the future, my father's business trips will also decrease, and we will have more and more contact time, but we cannot find a common topic. My father has approached me time and time again, to talk to me, to have a heart to heart conversation, to speak his true feelings, but I am afraid of him and dare not approach him. Every time, I have to avoid him. Even if it's a family meeting, find excuses not to attend.
还记得有一次，不知什么原因，我和父亲两个人在一个房间里，你看看我，我看看你，一声也不响。刹时间，整个空气好像被凝固似的，突然，父亲吞吞吐吐地说出了几个字：“我……要走了！”那微小的几乎听不见的声响，传到了我的耳朵里。顿时，心不禁颤了一下，我想：“咦！奇怪，为什么我会颤抖呢？大概是本能反应吧！”
I still remember one time, for some unknown reason, my father and I were in the same room. You looked at me, I looked at you, but there was not a sound. In a moment, the entire air seemed to freeze, and suddenly, my father stuttered out a few words:; I… … I am going now. ” That tiny, almost inaudible sound reached my ears. Suddenly, my heart trembled and I thought to myself:; Huh! Strange, why do I tremble? Probably an instinctive reaction! ”
父亲慢悠悠地拎着行李依依不舍地离开了，我原地愣了一会儿，忽然像拔开云雾见青天似的什么都明白了，急忙冲出大门向父亲追去。惭愧地对父亲说：“爸爸，我帮你拿行李吧！”父亲微笑着对我说：“好吧，不过要小心，很沉。”我心里顿时暖暖的，从未有过的开心和喜悦，原来父爱是多么的温暖、甜蜜啊！
My father slowly carried his luggage and left reluctantly. I stood still for a moment, then suddenly understood everything as if pulling out the clouds and seeing the blue sky. I hurriedly rushed out of the door and chased after my father. I feel ashamed and say to my father, '; Dad, let me help you with your luggage! ” My father smiled and said to me, '; Okay, but be careful, it's quite heavy. ” My heart suddenly warmed up, with happiness and joy that I had never experienced before. It turns out how warm and sweet fatherly love is!
我提着沉重的行李，将父亲送上了汽车站，见他越来越瘦弱的身体怎能撑得起一个家的重担子呢？其实父亲有着坚强的毅志要保护我们、爱护我们，不让我们在大雪纷飞的冬天受到饥寒的折磨。他不仅有坚强的意志，还有自信心和亲人的支持，他就是凭着这些信心、勇气和家人的爱所给的力量，做到了一个有责任感、对自己工作尽心尽力和明确目标的家庭主男。
I carried my heavy luggage and sent my father to the bus station. Seeing his increasingly frail body, how could he bear the heavy burden of a family? In fact, my father has a strong determination to protect and cherish us, and not let us suffer from hunger and cold in the snowy winter. He not only has a strong will, but also confidence and the support of his family. It is with this confidence, courage, and the love of his family that he has become a responsible, dedicated, and goal oriented family leader.
父爱是多么伟大，多么无私啊！父爱是不求回报的。当你在田野里忙碌不堪、汗流浃背时，我懂你，你是在为家庭的饮食而忙碌；当你在工厂勤勤恳恳，腰酸背痛工作时，我懂你，你是在为家庭的收入而奔波；当你在责骂我时，我懂你，你是在为我的安全而操心……
How great and selfless is fatherly love! Father's love is unrewarding. When you are busy in the fields, sweating profusely, I understand you. You are busy with the food for your family; When you work diligently in the factory with back pain and soreness, I understand you. You are running around for the income of your family; When you scold me, I understand you. You are worrying about my safety; …