南宋理学家朱熹有言：“俗语所谓将心比心，如此则各得其平矣。”我们设身处地地为别人着想，彼此都会更舒心，我们的周遭也会更和谐。
Southern Song Neo Confucian scholar Zhu Xi once said:; As the saying goes, 'put your heart to your heart', so that everyone can find their own peace. ” Putting ourselves in others' shoes will make each other more comfortable and our surroundings more harmonious.
每逢周末，妈妈都会从课外班接我回家，对此我万分感激。可每次到楼下停车的时候我又十分不耐烦，路上十分钟，停车五分钟，为什么就不能快点呢？
Every weekend, my mother picks me up from extracurricular classes and I am extremely grateful for it. But every time I park downstairs, I get very impatient. It takes ten minutes on the road and five minutes to park, why can't I speed up?
特别是最近冬春交替，气温总是爱搞“促销”，恨不能“满20-10”的，十分钟路程很短，我们车上没有开空调，赶上“促销”降温，我只想快回家里暖和一阵儿。可妈妈依然在停车时磨磨蹭蹭，我忍不住了：“这么大的地儿，又不是停不进去，干嘛磨蹭这么久啊，快点儿吧！”妈妈不紧不慢，一边注视着后视镜，一边说：“是，这地儿不小呢，我停好停正就能停两个车呢。咱们不能就管自己不管别人呀。我要随便一停，占了两个车位，要是有车来了，怎么办呀？咱们可不能光图自己省事啊。”妈妈的这番话说得我面红耳赤，我低下了头，不再说话。此时的我确实没地方“停”了。
Especially with the recent transition between winter and spring, the temperature has always been unpredictable; Promotion” I wish I could; Over 20-10” Yes, the ten minute journey is very short. We didn't turn on the air conditioning in the car, so we caught up; Promotion” Cool down, I just want to go home and warm up for a while. But my mother is still procrastinating while parking, and I can't help it anymore:; Why are you procrastinating for so long in such a big place? Hurry up! ” Mom remained calm and steady, staring at the rearview mirror while saying; Yes, this place is not small. I can park two cars right after parking. We can't just focus on ourselves and ignore others. I want to park randomly and occupy two parking spaces. What if a car comes? We can't just focus on saving ourselves trouble. ” My mother's words made my face turn red and my ears turn red. I lowered my head and stopped talking. At this moment, I really have nowhere to go; Stop” That's it.
素质停车，将心比心呀！我耐心地等着妈妈停完了车，拿着东西走上了楼。
Quality parking, empathize with others! I patiently waited for my mother to stop the car and walk upstairs with her things.
我回到家暖和了一阵，爸爸接到快递电话，让我去快递柜取件。刚出楼门，一阵风吹来，我拉紧了薄羽绒服拉链，带上了帽子，快步走向快递柜。
I got home and warmed up for a while, and my dad received a call from the courier asking me to go to the locker to pick up the package. Just as I stepped out of the building, a gust of wind blew. I tightened the zipper of my thin down jacket, put on my hat, and walked quickly towards the delivery cabinet.
在我前面的是一个叔叔和一个阿姨。叔叔愁眉苦脸，十分着急，自言自语：“怎么还不打开啊，急死我了！”阿姨站在旁边，也有些急：“怎么回事？要不联系快递员吧。”叔叔又划动着手机，拨打着电话。这时，那位阿姨才看到我在等着拿快递。于是拉了拉叔叔的衣服，示意让我先取。可电话已经拨通，需要按照快递员要求操作，我赶忙说道：“没事儿，您先取，我等会儿。”“谢谢！太感谢了！”阿姨边向我点头边笑着。我也微微笑着，即使天还是很冷，可我相信，此时我们三人的心底都是暖的。
In front of me are an uncle and an aunt. Uncle frowned and looked very anxious, muttering to himself:; Why haven't you opened it yet? I'm so anxious! ” Auntie stood beside, also a little anxious:; What's going on? How about contacting the courier. ” Uncle was swiping his phone and making calls again. At this moment, the aunt saw me waiting to pick up the package. So he pulled Uncle's clothes and gestured for me to pick them up first. The phone has already been dialed, and we need to follow the courier's instructions. I quickly said, '; It's okay, you can pick it up first, I'll wait. ” “ thank you! Thank you so much! ” Auntie nodded at me while smiling. I also smiled slightly, even though it was still very cold, I believe that at this moment, the hearts of the three of us are warm.
在等待的时间里，我一点也不觉烦，也丝毫没有抱怨，因为我知道，比着急更难受的，是没有别人的理解。
During the waiting time, I didn't feel bothered at all, nor did I complain at all, because I knew that what was even more unbearable than being in a hurry was the lack of understanding from others.
将心比心，以心换心。
Put your heart to heart, exchange your heart for your heart.