难说这是否是绝大多数人共同拥有的经历：在老家，还是咿呀学语的年纪里，总有邻居长辈笑盈盈地说：“你这个给我吃好不好？”虽然只是玩笑话，可有几个孩子不当真？我常常是将手中揣着的美食下意识地藏向身后，带了坚定的语气说“不”。但我不明白的是，他们反倒乐得哈哈大笑。
It's hard to say if this is an experience shared by the vast majority of people: in their hometown or at the age of babbling, there are always neighbors and elders who smile and say, "Can you give me this to eat?" Although it's just a joke, how many children don't take it seriously? I often subconsciously hide the delicious food in my hand behind me and say 'no' with a firm tone. But what I don't understand is that they actually burst out laughing happily.
回家问奶奶，奶奶说：“他们逗你玩呢。不过，有好吃的要学会分享给大家啊。来，跟奶奶去送南瓜饼吧。”
When I went home and asked my grandmother, she said, "They're just teasing you. But there's something delicious to learn to share with everyone. Come on, let's go send pumpkin cakes with my grandmother
奶奶将刚刚煎好的南瓜饼从锅里盛起来，一个，两个，三个……高高地叠起来，金黄酥脆地，香气扑鼻。奶奶往我手里塞一个，然后带着我走西家奶奶，又到东家爷爷，满满的一碗，很快就见底了。大家说，谢谢啊！奶奶说，不谢，又不是什么好东西。那时，奶奶脸上却洋溢着幸福的笑。出处 wWW.zuOWeNBa.nEt
Grandma scooped up the freshly fried pumpkin cakes from the pot, one, two, three... stacked high, golden and crispy, with a strong aroma. My grandmother stuffed one into my hand and then took me to my grandmother in the west, and then to my grandfather in the east. There was a full bowl, and soon the bottom was reached. Everyone says, thank you! Grandma said, thank you, it's not a good thing. At that time, Grandma's face was filled with a happy smile.
我一路看在眼里，心里更不明白了。问奶奶：“这个村子都是我们家亲戚吗？”奶奶听了，笑着摸着我的头：“远亲不如近邻啊。好邻居胜过亲戚呢。”
I have been watching it all the way, but I don't understand it in my heart anymore. My grandmother asked, "Are all the relatives in this village from our family?" She smiled and touched my head, saying, "A close neighbor is better than a distant relative. A good neighbor is better than a relative
于是，我又常常看见，新鲜摘下的豆角，刚刚还温热的鸡蛋，一个浑圆的大西瓜……不时地送到了我们家，他们也常笑着说，又不是什么好东西，邻里之间，尝个鲜。
So, I often see freshly picked beans, freshly warmed eggs, a round watermelon... delivered to our house from time to time, and they often laugh and say, 'It's not a good thing. Let's try something fresh among neighbors.'.
后来，长大回长沙读书，在高楼里，电梯两旁的邻居平常都很难碰面。电梯里遇见，也很少打招呼。虽有邻里，但总有独门独户的感觉。
Later, when I grew up and went back to Changsha to study, it was difficult to meet my neighbors on both sides of the elevator in high-rise buildings. Encountered in the elevator and rarely greeted. Although there are neighbors, there is always a feeling of being a single family.
去年暑假，奶奶过来了，还带来了两个敦实的大南瓜。还没有歇下来，就忙活着给我们做南瓜饼。滋滋的香气渐渐弥漫起来，一碗盛起来，金黄酥脆。奶奶对我说：“去给隔壁的邻居送过去。”
Last summer vacation, my grandmother came over and brought two sturdy pumpkins. Before I could rest, I was busy making pumpkin cakes for us. The sizzling aroma gradually permeated, and when served in a bowl, it turned golden and crispy. My grandmother said to me, 'Go and deliver it to the neighbor next door.'
“奶奶，这里不是老家，我们平时都没有什么来往的。”我抗拒着。
Grandma, this is not our hometown, we don't have much contact usually, "I resisted.
“家里土菜，给人家尝一尝啊”。
Try the local vegetables at home.
“可你知道人家喜欢吃吗？人家不要怎么办，是不是很尴尬？”
But do you know if they like to eat? What should they not do? Isn't it awkward
我手上端着南瓜饼，心里一百个不情愿。在邻居阿姨门口踌躇了半天，叩开了门，阿姨很惊异地看着我，当我把南瓜饼递到她手上时，我见到她脸上蓦地欣喜起来，又赶紧接过碗，连声说谢谢。“又不是什么好东西，奶奶亲手做的，给你尝一尝……”
I was holding a pumpkin pie in my hand, feeling a hundred reluctant in my heart. After hesitating for a while at the neighbor's aunt's doorstep, she knocked on the door and looked at me in surprise. When I handed her the pumpkin cake, I saw a sudden joy on her face, and she quickly grabbed a bowl, repeatedly saying thank you. It's not a good thing, Grandma made it herself. Let me give you a taste
那一瞬间，我心里满是甜蜜，像是推开了一扇门，又像是回到了老家，感受到那邻里常来常往的亲近。
In that moment, my heart was filled with sweetness, as if I had pushed open a door or returned to my hometown, feeling the constant closeness of the neighbors.
后来，隔壁的阿姨，还有对面的邻居，都因奶奶的到来而变得熟络起来。不时，碰到了聊个家常串个门，谁家有急事帮个忙，哪个有新鲜好吃的尝个鲜……笑声也渐渐多了，正如奶奶说的，远亲不如近邻。
Later, the aunt next door and the neighbor across the street became familiar with each other due to the arrival of their grandmother. From time to time, we would chat about everyday life and visit each other's homes. Whoever had an urgent matter to help with, or who had something fresh and delicious to taste... Laughter gradually increased, just as my grandmother said, close neighbors are better than distant relatives.
邻里间的温暖和幸福以分享为纽带传递着，当温暖与幸福流淌在心里时，我想，那一定比南瓜饼还要美味吧。
The warmth and happiness between neighbors are transmitted through sharing as a bond. When the warmth and happiness flow in my heart, I think it must be even more delicious than pumpkin pie.