从我上学记事起，父母就教育我对人要宽容友善。我一开始不以为然，直到那天发生的一件事，让我彻底改观。
Since I can remember going to school, my parents have taught me to be tolerant and friendly towards people. I didn't think much of it at first, until something happened that day that completely changed me.
记得那是二年级的一天，我和同桌吵了架，原因是她弄坏了我一支笔。当时我生气地对她说：“我再也不跟你玩了！”她也气鼓鼓地说：“谁想和你玩！”就这样，我们不欢而散。
I remember it was a day in second grade when my desk mate and I had an argument because she broke my pen. At that time, I angrily said to her, 'I won't play with you anymore!' She also angrily said, 'Who wants to play with you!' And so we parted ways unhappily.( WwW.ZuowenBa.Net )
回家后我还是闷闷不乐的，奶奶发现了我的异样，把我叫到房间，心平气和地对我说：“发生什么事了？”我说：“是同桌先弄坏了我的笔，真不该借她！”奶奶又对我说：“生气不能解决问题。你也不能为了一支笔而伤了你和同桌之间的和气。而且有问题要好好说，不要吵架，对不对？”我又想了想，沉思片刻，觉得奶奶说的有道理。我说：“对！我明天要当面向她道歉！”说完，我走出了房间，奶奶看着我，点了点头。
After returning home, I was still feeling down. My grandmother noticed something unusual about me and called me to her room. She calmly asked me, "What happened?" I replied, "It was my desk mate who broke my pen first. I shouldn't have lent it to her!" My grandmother then said to me, "Being angry doesn't solve the problem. You can't hurt the relationship between you and your desk mate just for a pen. And if you have a problem, you should talk about it properly and not argue, right?" After thinking for a moment, I realized that what my grandmother said made sense. I said, 'Yes! I'm going to apologize to her face tomorrow!' After that, I walked out of the room, and my grandmother looked at me and nodded.
第二天，我见到同桌说：“对不起，昨天我不应该责怪你，伤了你的心。”同桌忙说：“不不不，是我的问题。你借我东西，是你对我的信任，我更应该珍惜。”我说：“那……我们还是朋友。”“嗯！”
The next day, I saw my desk mate and said, "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have blamed you yesterday for hurting your heart." My desk mate quickly said, "No, no, it's my problem. You lent me something, it's your trust in me, and I should cherish it even more." I said, "So... we're still friends." "" Hmm
从那以后，我把“宽以待人”当做了我的座右铭，也真的变得更随和宽容。因为我知道了，除了帮助别人，宽容对待别人也可以带给别人温暖。
Since then, I have made "treating others with tolerance" my motto and have truly become more easy-going and tolerant. Because I know that besides helping others, being tolerant towards others can also bring warmth to them.