爷爷和奶奶今年都七十多岁了，彼此吵起来去，还是像小孩子一样。
Grandpa and grandma are both over seventy years old this year, and when they argue with each other, they still behave like children.
爷爷和奶奶住在乡下。爷爷在屋后开了一片不大的花园，它是爷爷的最爱。爷爷一闲下来就爱往后院跑，耐心地浇灌每一株灌木，细心地修剪每一束枝丫，在爷爷夜以继日的努力下，花园里被各色的花朵挤满了每一寸土地，海棠，金桂，忍冬，一派盎然生机。而奶奶呢，为了让我们全家享受最新鲜健康的饮食，在前院的小河旁种了块菜地，既然要健康，奶奶自然不肯打农药，那取而代之的则是奶奶辛苦的劳作，她在炎炎夏日，顶着毒辣的太阳辛勤耕作；在风雨交加的夜晚，踩着泥泞的土地忙碌，就为培育出令她最放心的蔬果。
Grandpa and grandma live in the countryside. Grandpa opened a small garden behind the house, which is his favorite. Grandpa loves to run towards the backyard whenever he has free time, patiently watering every shrub and carefully pruning every branch. With Grandpa's tireless efforts day and night, every inch of the garden is filled with colorful flowers, such as crabapples, osmanthus, and honeysuckle, exuding a vibrant vitality. And grandma, in order for our whole family to enjoy the freshest and healthiest food, planted a vegetable field by the small river in the front yard. Since she wanted to be healthy, grandma naturally refused to use pesticides. Instead, it was grandma's hard work. In the scorching summer, she worked hard under the scorching sun; On a stormy night, busy stepping on muddy soil, she worked hard to cultivate the fruits and vegetables that she felt most at ease with.
为此，奶奶总是嘲笑爷爷，说他是真成一个老头子了，只能种种树养养花，对家里便是一点作用也没有。每每这时，爷爷就会去花园抱来他最新种植的花卉，用不屑的语气问奶奶谁不会种菜，养花比种菜难多了，随即报出自己每天养花的繁琐程序。
For this reason, grandma always ridicules grandpa, saying that he has really become an old man and can only grow trees and flowers, which has no effect on the family. At this moment, Grandpa would go to the garden to bring his latest planted flowers and ask Grandma in a disdainful tone who doesn't know how to grow vegetables. Raising flowers is much harder than growing vegetables, and then he would report the tedious procedures of raising flowers every day.
两个人常常就这样不知不觉地争起来，有时甚至瞪着双眼，大声质问，好像谁也不服谁的样子。
The two of them often argue unconsciously, sometimes even staring and questioning loudly, as if neither of them is willing to accept the other.
不过，爷爷奶奶在对方需要帮助时还是十分上心的，奶奶为没有时间买新的菜籽而苦恼时，爷爷会悄悄地从小镇上的商店里买一包回来，放在餐桌上；爷爷在费劲地移植他怎么也搬不动的小树时，奶奶会默默地帮爷爷托起树根的底部。
However, when the other party needs help, the grandparents are still very attentive. When the grandmother is distressed about not having time to buy new rapeseed, the grandfather will quietly buy a pack from the small town store and put it on the dining table; When grandpa was struggling to transplant a small tree that he couldn't move, grandma would silently help grandpa lift the bottom of the tree roots.
还记得一次，爷爷在楼梯上摔了一跤，疼得走不动路，趴在地上叫苦连天，邻居去田里叫来了奶奶，看到受伤的爷爷，奶奶顿时没了以往的镇静，慌忙地在阁楼的箱子里翻找爷爷的医保卡，和邻居一起把爷爷送到医院，一整天都守在爷爷的身边。后来我和奶奶提起这件事，奶奶告诉我，爷爷是她一生的伴侣，他们两个人在彼此眼中，早已入骨入心，谁也离不开谁，那些生活里的小争执，也是平淡生活里的美味佐料，有滋有味——
I still remember one time when my grandfather fell down the stairs and couldn't walk anymore in pain. He lay on the ground and cried out in agony. The neighbor went to the field to call my grandmother, and when she saw my injured grandfather, her grandmother lost her usual calmness. She hurriedly searched for my grandfather's medical insurance card in the box in the attic and took him to the hospital with her neighbor. She stayed by my grandfather's side all day. Later, when I mentioned this to my grandmother, she told me that her grandfather was her lifelong partner. The two of them were deeply ingrained in each other's hearts and could not live without each other. The small disputes in their daily lives were also delicious seasonings in ordinary life, full of flavor——
是啊！人与人之间的关系是奇怪的，因为亲情或是爱情，虽然看起来平淡或激情，疏离或关心，独立或依赖，虽然嘴上说“不是冤家不聚头”，但是谁也离不开谁，内心里都在暗暗窃喜这辈子的相遇。
Yeah! The relationship between people is strange, because family or love, although seemingly plain or passionate, distant or caring, independent or dependent, and although they say "it's not that enemies don't get together", no one can do without each other, and everyone secretly enjoys the encounter in this life.
在生活中放慢脚步，我看到了亲情的影子，也发现了很多。
Slowing down in life, I have seen the shadow of family affection and discovered many things.