“树欲静而风不止，子欲养而亲不待”，不知不觉，爷爷已经离开我们一个多月了，但他的身影却一直在我脑海中浮现。
The tree wants to be quiet but the wind doesn't stop, and the child wants to be raised but doesn't wait for him. "Unconsciously, my grandfather has been away from us for more than a month, but his figure has been constantly appearing in my mind.
如今，我再也听不到爷爷的声音了。以前他在房间里叫我过去，我总是很不耐烦，不是叫我帮他打水，就是帮忙开关灯，有一次我实在受不了，就随口说了句：“你自己弄不行吗？干嘛非要叫我呢！”但他却叹气说：“哎，爷爷老了，腿脚不方便了，你就帮一下爷爷，好吗？”这是我十多年来第一次听到爷爷去恳求一个晚辈。
Now, I can no longer hear my grandfather's voice. He used to call me over from his room, and I was always impatient. He either asked me to fetch water for him or to turn on the lights. One time, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I casually said, "Can't you do it yourself? Why do you have to call me?" But he sighed and said, "Hey, grandpa is getting old and his legs are not convenient anymore. Can you help grandpa, okay?" This was the first time in more than ten years that I heard grandpa plead with a younger generation.
那天早上，我早早地就洗漱完毕坐在客厅等待，因为那天爷爷火化的日子。我强忍着泪水，内心万般疼痛，捧着爷爷的遗像出了门。到了殡仪馆，我们为爷爷举行了告别仪式。我看着爷爷就静静地躺在那里，这样子就和他平时睡觉时一模一样。“爷爷走了，走得很安详。”这是爸爸在爷爷走的那天晚上告诉我的。告别仪式结束后，爷爷的遗体就被送去火化区了。我们一家人边哭边互相搀扶来到了火化区，工作人员和我们确认了爷爷的身份后就开始火化。我眼睁睁地看着爷爷的遗体被推了进去，这时，我的眼泪不争气得流了下来。四十多分钟后，我看到了爷爷的骨灰被推了出来，那骨灰是多么的炽热又是多么的冰凉。经历过这件事以后，我也成熟了许多。
That morning, I finished washing up early and sat in the living room waiting, because it was the day my grandfather was cremated. I held back my tears, feeling immense pain inside, and walked out holding the portrait of my grandfather. At the funeral home, we held a farewell ceremony for our grandfather. I looked at my grandfather and lay there quietly, just like when he usually slept. Grandpa passed away peacefully, "my father told me on the night he left. After the farewell ceremony, Grandpa's body was sent to the cremation area. Our family cried and helped each other to the cremation area. After the staff confirmed our grandfather's identity, we began cremation. I watched helplessly as my grandfather's body was pushed in, and at that moment, tears streamed down my face. More than forty minutes later, I saw my grandfather's ashes being pushed out, how hot and cold they were. After experiencing this, I have also matured a lot.
在打扫爷爷的房间时，我们发现了很多他以前的证书，爷爷以前是医院的儿科主治医生，他也获得过许多的荣誉，甚至我们还发现了一些患者送来的锦旗。爷爷和奶奶的结婚照也被我们翻出来了，五十多年了，那照片还是那么崭新。奶奶还清晰的记得他们结婚的日子，她一边抚摸着爷爷的遗像，一边告诉我关于他俩的爱情故事和成长经历。
When cleaning Grandpa's room, we found many of his previous certificates. Grandpa used to be a pediatrician in the hospital and he had also received many honors. We even found some banners sent by patients. We have also dug up the wedding photos of grandpa and grandma, which are still so brand new after more than fifty years. Grandma still vividly remembers the day they got married. While caressing her grandfather's portrait, she told me about their love story and upbringing.
瞬间，我脑海里回忆着跟爷爷的过往，爷爷送我上学，爷爷为我做饭，爷爷把我最爱吃的蛋糕留给没有放学的我，爷爷冒着雨为送我作业本……记忆不知不觉模糊了我的双眼，唯有心痛，后悔，心痛……
In an instant, I recalled my past with my grandfather in my mind. He sent me to school, cooked for me, left my favorite cake for me who hadn't finished school, and braved the rain to give me my homework. Memories unconsciously blurred my eyes, only heartache, regret, heartache
我大抵是明白了，一个人的生死，就是在那一瞬间。我想，我懂了。
I basically understand that a person's life and death are in that moment. I think I understand now.