自我定位就是我觉得我应该成为一个怎样的人，我适合做什么，我要做什么，以及要达到什么的目标。就像坐进一辆出租车，你要明确告诉司机你要抵达的目的地，而不是让司机自己看着办，哪条路不堵就往哪开，结果就会迷失了方向。一个人之所以需要自我定位，是因为每个人有自己擅长的东西，也有自己的不足，不是看着别人很风光就觉得自己也行，一股脑也投身进入试试，结果碰了一鼻子灰，或者头破血流。比如，有的人本来好好在公司上班，安安稳稳过个小日子，看到别人开公司当老板日子过得春风得意，自己也大吼一声就辞职不干了，把辛苦赚的钱投资做了生意。然而商场如战场，其中的残酷若非亲身经历都无法体会，那点钱扔进去连点水花都没溅起来就打水漂了。这就是缺乏自我定位，而误入了歧途，在荆棘密布的丛林中怎么也走不出一条路来。那么，该如何我定位呢？
Self positioning is what kind of person I think I should be, what I am suitable for, what I want to do, and what goals I want to achieve. It's like getting into a taxi, you have to clearly tell the driver the destination you want to reach, instead of letting the driver take care of it and drive wherever the road is not congested, which will lead to losing direction. The reason why a person needs to self identify is because everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. It's not like just looking at someone else's glory and thinking that you're good at it, jumping in and trying, only to end up with a nose full of dust or a bloody head. For example, some people who used to work hard in the company and live a peaceful life, but when they saw others leading a successful life as bosses, they shouted and quit, investing their hard-earned money in business. However, the shopping mall is like a battlefield, and the cruelty inside cannot be experienced without personal experience. If you throw a little money in, it won't even make a splash and will float in the water. This is the lack of self positioning, leading one astray and unable to find a way out in the thorny jungle. So, how should I position myself?来源 wwW.ZUowEnbA.nET
自我定位首先要学会自己剖析，找到自己的位置。在学生阶段在学习基础知识的同时，也在挖掘和培养自己的兴趣爱好，所以等学习生涯结束，你还不知道自己的优劣势，就会陷入职业迷茫，好像啥都能做，但啥似乎都做不好。所以，尽可能早的了解自己，有意识地培养自己的特长，把一技之长变成自己的专业，用自己的专业在实践中积累不可替代的经验，那就是专家。行行出状元啊，只要在某个细分的领域里成为专家，就有了自己的一席之地，人生也就有了价值。不管是厨师、裁缝、汽车维修工等与生活息息相关的工作，还是医生、律师、建筑师等高端的职业，只要能够出类拔萃，都有一个星光璀璨的舞台。
Self positioning first requires learning to analyze oneself and find one's own position. In the student stage, while learning basic knowledge, one is also exploring and cultivating their own interests and hobbies. Therefore, when the learning career is over and you don't know your strengths and weaknesses, you will fall into career confusion, as if you can do anything, but it seems like you can't do anything well. So, it is important to understand oneself as early as possible, consciously cultivate one's strengths, turn one's expertise into one's own profession, and accumulate irreplaceable experience through practice using one's own profession. That is what an expert is. As long as you become an expert in a specific field, you will have your own place and value in life. Whether it's jobs that are closely related to daily life such as chefs, tailors, or car mechanics, or high-end professions such as doctors, lawyers, and architects, as long as one can excel, there is a shining stage with stars.
自我定位还需要一份定力！所谓的定力就是当你选定了一个方向，就不能像一棵墙头草随风倒，一会想想这个念头，一会会打打那个心思，老是静不下心来把一件事做明白。而定力就要像沙漠中的胡杨树一样坚韧——活三千年不死，死三千年不倒，倒三千年不朽。这样才能真正扎根，即便在飞沙走石的恶劣环境中也能成长为顶天立地的参天大树。人的定力还在于要耐得住寂寞，经得起诱惑，受得了打磨。人天生喜欢热闹，谁都怕寂寞，如果没有定力你连手机都战胜不了，更别谈打败对手或敌人了。而生活中的诱惑更是铺天盖地，吃喝玩乐都在引诱着你，哪项都不简单。至于生活的打磨，说起来都没啥，当要去面对时每一个都不容易。所以，自我定位就要让自己扎根在自己的一亩三分地里，精耕细作，直到蔚然成风！
Self positioning still requires some determination! The so-called concentration is that when you have chosen a direction, you cannot follow the wind like a wall grass. You will think about this idea at one time, and then have another thought, always unable to calm down and do something clearly. And determination must be as resilient as a poplar tree in the desert - live for three thousand years without dying, die for three thousand years without falling, fall for three thousand years without falling. Only in this way can we truly take root and grow into towering trees even in harsh environments with flying sand and rocks. Human composure also lies in being able to withstand loneliness, temptation, and polishing. People are born to enjoy excitement, and everyone is afraid of loneliness. Without determination, you can't even defeat your phone, let alone defeat your opponents or enemies. And the temptations in life are overwhelming, eating, drinking, and having fun are all tempting you, nothing is simple. As for the polishing of life, it's nothing to talk about. It's not easy to face each one. So, self positioning requires rooting oneself in one's own one and a half acres of land, cultivating meticulously until it becomes a trend!
当然，自我定位并非自我设限，而是要清晰自己的优缺点，趋利避害，把优势发挥到极致，同时需要一股风雨不动安如山的定力，让自己成为一座高峰！
Of course, self positioning is not about setting limits on oneself, but about being clear about one's strengths and weaknesses, seeking benefits and avoiding harm, and maximizing one's strengths. At the same time, it requires a calm and steady determination to become a peak in the wind and rain!